control

Ya know what... this world has one thing that will never change.
whats the definition of the world CONTROL? To exercise authoritative or dominating influence over; direct.To hold in restraint; check
Everything must be controled. Chaos cannot reign. It doesn't reign in nature and thus it cannot else where. There is order.
Think about it:
Mom controls the household
Dad controls the income
Teacher controls the learning environment
Coach controls the team
Someone is usually in control in a relationship, unless they share it(never perfectly evenly tho)
What we don't fully comprehend is what we ourselves control. Our fate, our destiny... it is not out of our hands. One bad decision can affect you so much farther down the line, you'd ever connect the two events. Be Aware of what you control, and what controls you.
People who blame their alcoholism on their depression, their repressed memories, their parents... its bullshit. Something you did lead you to that end. Veterans who end up begging for change blame the country they served. Not true, somewhere you expected too much and got disappointed you 'didn't get what you deserved', somewhere you made a conscious effort to not give a f*** and let yourself become this way.
Fat people who blame MCDonalds for their obesity. Somewhere you watched a commercial and let it influence you, and then neglected to halt oyurself.
All-in-all YOU DID IT YOURSELF
I'm no exception. I complain about working 3 jobs- but what am I doing about it? What am I not doing about it? I complain about my crappy truck, about living at home with my rents... but I splurge on my spending too often to combat this. We DO it to OURSELVES.
Think about it............